Connor, Dani, Tanner & James from Love on the Spectrum U.S.: Life After the Show

There’s something about Love on the Spectrum that just... stays with you.

Maybe it’s that first nervous smile. Or the awkward but honest "I like trains, do you?" Or maybe it’s watching people who’ve spent years feeling misunderstood, finally being seen.

When Love on the Spectrum dropped on Netflix, it wasn’t just another dating show. It felt like the first time the world actually paused to listen to autistic voices—not as side characters, not as token guests, but as real people looking for something all of us crave: love, connection, and belonging.

From Connor’s wide-eyed innocence to Dani’s fierce ambition, the cast didn’t just steal hearts—they broke every TV stereotype in sight. But what happened after the cameras stopped rolling? Who stayed together? Who moved on? And where are these beautiful misfits now?

Let’s go there.

How It All Started: A Quick Timeline

Love on the Spectrum, adapted from the award-winning Australian original, first arrived in the U.S. on May 18, 2022. It didn’t come with fancy gimmicks or forced drama—it came with vulnerability, truth, and people you instantly wanted to root for.

Netflix rolled out:

  • Season 1 in May 2022
  • Season 2 in January 2023
  • Season 3 in April 2024
  • Season 4 is expected later in 2025

Each season layered new stories, returned to familiar faces, and built a soft, real universe of neurodivergent dating that the world didn’t know it needed.

Let’s Talk Cast: Where Are They Now in 2025?

Connor Tomlinson – From First Kiss to Real Love

If there's one person who left a lasting impression, it’s Connor. Sweet, gentle, and completely unfiltered, Connor’s journey from fumbling small talk to finding Georgie was one of the most talked-about arcs of Season 3.

Their first kiss wasn’t just TV magic—it was his first ever, and it felt like everyone watching let out a collective “Awww.”

Where is he now?
Still dating Georgie. Still traveling. Still growing.

He’s 26 now, based in Atlanta, and dabbling in everything from voice acting to storytelling. Oh, and fun fact, he performed on a Broadway stage. You read that right.

Connor once said the show taught him how to show affection and build trust. Now, he’s putting that into practice in his relationship and creative career.

Dani Bowman – The Breakup Queen Who Built an Empire

Dani’s story was less about love and more about finding yourself. Yes, she tried dating Solomon. Yes, she gave it another shot with Adan. But both romances fizzled out, and let’s be honest, it broke a few of our hearts, too.

But if you thought Dani was going to fade out after heartbreak, think again.

She doubled down on her animation company, DaniMation, kept mentoring kids on the spectrum, and became a full-blown autism advocate. At 30, she’s running a business, working on new films, and speaking around the country. Relationships may have come and gone, but Dani? She stayed focused, fierce, and unfiltered.

James B. Jones – Metalhead Finds His Muse

Every season needs its wildcard, and James was it. Obsessed with heavy metal, brutally honest, and armed with one-liners that either made you cringe or cry laughing, James was unforgettable.

His earlier seasons were filled with funny misfires, awkward rejections, and dating disasters. But Season 3 gave him something new: Shelley.

They met online. They vibed. And now? They’re still going strong. James lives with his loving parents and his autistic brother, William. And Shelley? She’s become a huge part of that tight-knit world.

James finally got the girl, and in the most James way possible.

Abbey & David – Still Disney, Still Together

Remember Abbey? The Disney-obsessed queen with a sparkle in her eye? And David, the super sincere guy who adored her from Day 1?

Well, guess what—they’re still together. Four years strong.

They’ve made trips to Disneyland, posted TikToks, and even talked about future wedding plans. These two were Love on the Spectrum’s OG couple, and honestly, they’re still goals.

Madison & Tyler – Faith, Music, and a Little Romance

Not everyone got the spotlight, but Madison and Tyler’s bond was something quiet and special. They met through shared faith and a love for songwriting, and they’ve kept it going long after filming.

They’re still a couple, still singing together, and recently celebrated their first anniversary in the most Madison-and-Tyler way: with an acoustic set by the lake.

Pari & Tina – Nerd Love Is Real Love

Pari and Tina weren’t flashy. They didn’t need to be.

They geeked out over anime. Shared playlists. Laughed at their own inside jokes. And while others were busy chasing “spark,” these two built something real.

They’re still together and plan to travel across Asia after college, just like they whispered about during filming.

Not Just a Show, A Reminder We All Needed

Love on the Spectrum didn’t promise fairy tales—and maybe that’s why it worked. The show gave us people who didn’t fit the mold. People who said the wrong thing at the wrong time, but meant every word. People who didn’t know what love looked like, but wanted to learn anyway.

In 2025, the cast is still growing, dating, breaking up, and starting over—just like the rest of us.

They’re not perfect. They’re not polished.
But they’re real. And honestly? That’s what makes their stories unforgettable.